There are old wounds the body does not forget—

buried memories held in the pelvis, crystallized in the folds of intimacy—

stories of absent men, wounded men, violent men,

or simply men once loved, but never truly heard.

There are unspoken words, stifled gestures, silent anger and heavy sorrow,

passed down from body to body, through ancestral lines, from love to rupture.

 

The Lingam Ritual – Forgiveness of the Masculine - is a sacred inner journey of reconciliation with the Sacred Masculine—

a space of tribute and transmutation, held within a Sacred Ritual Space.

It is a threshold between worlds, an inner passage that invites you to meet the Energy of the Masculine

in a new light—not through the lens of roles or conditioning,

but through the Sacred, the Vulnerable, the Living.

 

This ritual is for anyone who feels the call to bring peace to their relationship with the Masculine—

be it the father, past partners, ancestors, authority figures… or one’s own inner polarity.

 

We begin by opening a safe, sacred space—

a cocoon in which you are invited to lay down your words, your feelings, your story.

Through breath and gentle movement,

I guide you to reconnect with your pelvis, your axis, your Inner Earth,

and gently transition into a deeply symbolic and creative act:

the sculpting of a Lingam in clay, a sacred form representing the Essence of the Masculine.

This gesture is more than symbolic—it is an Embodied Prayer,

a message offered to the Masculine, infused with all you carry—

love, anger, memory, pain, gratitude, and recognition.

The Lingam is then immersed in a bowl of water—symbol of the Feminine—

where it slowly begins to dissolve.

 

Then comes the time for the Pelvic Massage Ritual,

offered with utmost respect, attuned to the rhythm of your Being.

This Sacred Touch invites release, opening, and reconnection—

it serves as a gateway to reclaiming vital energy and peaceful joy

in the places where the body may have tensed, shut down, or forgotten.

 

We close with a moment of silent integration, followed by a gentle completion of the session.

After an integration period of about 3 days,

you will be invited to conclude the Ritual with a personal Offering,

following a simple ceremonial protocol I will have shared with you in advance.

THE LINGAM

 

In Sanskrit, “Lingam” means “symbol” or “mark.” In tantric tradition, it embodies the male sex as a channel for divine energy, the pillar of the sky, the active principle of the sacred in motion.

This concept of the Pillar of Light, the axis between Earth and Heaven, is found across many ancient traditions—particularly in Maori tradition, where it is seen as both an anchor and a radiant source of vital energy.

This ritual does not approach the body as an object, but honors what it carries: memory, power, wounds, and beauty.